Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Back in the saddle again

I know you are dying to know the latest in the dating installment. I know it was getting boring so here we go.

Left message Sunday night, no call back.
6:30pm Monday sent text "Not to be difficult, but any chance you are going to call me tonight?"

He calls about 30 minutes later as he is going to dinner with a friend "Who he hasn't seen in a while" yeah, know how that is.

We talk for 15 minutes or so, and then I finally say, "You know you either need to tell me you don't want to date me or we need to talk." To which he says (in a fairly derogatory tone) "Yeah, I've lost interest in this whole relationship."

I said, "Thanks for being honest with me." I think he realized he sounded like a total jackass because then he changed his tone and started in on the "I'm 46 and probably will never find someone that is perfect" (Isn't he smart?) blah, blah, blah, I should have written everything down. I can't decide if he was planning on skitzing out or asking a bunch of questions or what, but I told him in the beginning that when the relationship ends the door wouldn't hit me on the ass on the way out.

At any rate, I said it is what it is and thanks again for being honest, have a nice dinner and goodnight.

So, now I'm a little pissed that he was jerky, I'm a little sad because there were a lot of things I liked about it, a little disappointed that it didn't work out and a little whiny at the thought of dating again, but I do it for you, my audience.

Back in the saddle again... oh and I defriended his ass on Facebook.

1 comment:

  1. Oh,.....I'm so sorry.....not ok.........